Do exes come back? You receive a lot of mixed messages when you begin wondering about your chances of getting back with your ex. Depending on your age, the type of situation you are in or your marital status, your chances of getting back together run from ten to sixty-five percent.
Why She’ll Probably Be Back After The Breakup
She broke up with me… Will she ever come back?
I’m sure it comes as no news to you that breakups happen for a reason. Sometimes the person who made the decision to pull the plug doesn’t give you all of the details on why they’ve chosen this path, but there are always reasons. Sometimes they’ll choose one main issue and skip over the smaller details in an effort avoid causing you more pain than necessary.
Whether she broke up with you, or you broke up with her, you’re going to have to address the issues that lead to your relationship’s demise. I’m going to expand on this in a moment, but the most important thing to remember is that it is highly unlikely that an ex is going want you back if they see no concrete improvements. You cannot expect her to come running back into your arms if she broke up with you and you haven’t made any changes since the breakup. Simply put, she doesn’t want to step back into the same relationship with you because you both know how that ended.
She will be back if you’ve successfully inspired her to want to be a part of your life again.
2) You’ve been down this road before with her
One of the other indicators of whether she’ll be back again is whether this is the first time this has happened or not.
If you’ve been down this road before and she ended up coming back, then there’s a solid chance that you’ll end up back together again.
If this is the first time she’s broken up with you or you’ve broken up with her, however, then it’s a different story.
When there’s a pattern of on-again-off-again in the past then there’s a trend of her rethinking things and returning.
If there’s not this kind of pattern in the past then the trend is more likely to lean toward her staying gone for good.
Will she ever come back? It’s not a question that’s easy to answer, and only time will tell.
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5. They Want to Stay in Touch with You (Or Your Friends and Family)
If your ex goes out of their way to stay in touch with you, your friends or your family after the breakup, then there is a good chance they are still interested in you and will eventually come back.
However, it doesn’t necessarily mean they will come back on their own. In most cases, you still need to make the right moves to attract them back.
If you feel that you need some time apart from your ex to heal and grow from the breakup, then consider starting no contact and getting some space from your ex. Staying in touch with your ex may actually be stopping you from growing and becoming the person you need to be to get them back.
If you are confused, read this article on no contact or get in touch with one of our coaches to figure out the best course of action for your situation.